Surely, you knew him better than that. It is hard for me to know for certain but I can guess that people leaving Ivar is one of the things that hurts him the most.
[ Athelstan seems a bit exasperated at that information. ]
Are you sure that you were actually all that happy that you truly want things the way the were or are you scared of being replaced and alone?
[ To him so much of it sounds less than ideal in the way she refers to Ivar more often than not. ]
You might not like it but you need to start over with Ivar, stop angling for the past and be honest but let Ivar draw the lines and you earn the right to cross them. He is not perfect but you are the one wanting something of him. Prove yourself that you're not using him and that you care for more than yourself.
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Date: 2018-02-21 03:33 am (UTC)[ Athelstan seems a bit exasperated at that information. ]
Are you sure that you were actually all that happy that you truly want things the way the were or are you scared of being replaced and alone?
[ To him so much of it sounds less than ideal in the way she refers to Ivar more often than not. ]
You might not like it but you need to start over with Ivar, stop angling for the past and be honest but let Ivar draw the lines and you earn the right to cross them. He is not perfect but you are the one wanting something of him. Prove yourself that you're not using him and that you care for more than yourself.