I say this with the best intentions, but perhaps if you looked at things in a way that is not completely about yourself then you would be better off. Everything you just said is about you and not about what is best for him or even what is best for your child. Have you asked him what he wants or needs or do you talk to him in this way?
You are the one that left, it is up to you to make the amends and the amends must be about the parties slighted, not about you.
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Date: 2018-02-21 12:10 am (UTC)I say this with the best intentions, but perhaps if you looked at things in a way that is not completely about yourself then you would be better off. Everything you just said is about you and not about what is best for him or even what is best for your child. Have you asked him what he wants or needs or do you talk to him in this way?
You are the one that left, it is up to you to make the amends and the amends must be about the parties slighted, not about you.